Dorothy Lafrinere

Be His Gift of Self-esteem for Christmas

On Christmas Day give your loved one a special gift. This gift should be real and true. It will let him know how dear he is to you and how much you look forward to spending the rest of your life with him. This special gift being, your most highest Self... Read >

Give the Gift of Self esteem for Christmas!

It is definitely moving in on us like a wonderful winter storm. Christmas is just around the corner and we all know what that means. It means that we have to think and re-think about what to get him and her, for Christmas. It means that our energy levels ... Read >

A Fitter, Firmer, Self-esteem

I am going to tease your mind a bit with what I have done in the fitness area. I am working hard on simplifying the information that is out there. Through-out the years of frequenting gyms, running, cycling and racket sports, I have had the pleasure to me... Read >

ACCEPTANCE

I was first thinking , when exactly does one start to yearn for acceptance? Is it when we are born? Is it when we first feel the pain of non-acceptance? Is it when we begin to be challenged in sports? Is it when we fall into the ever talked abo... Read >

Anger and Hurt: another lonely place!

Being human can really be challenging, to say the least. We feel emotions with every breath we take, every move we make. Some emotions are so sweet that we never want to lose that feeling. Other emotions cause us so much anger and hurt that we are paralyz... Read >

ARE YOU BEING ABUSED

This is another one of what I call HUSH WORDS which I recently did a write up on in my selfesteem site which seemed to have the most views. So I thought I would share it with my blog readers also. ABUSE is definitely a hush word. Why is it we are al... Read >

Battles against Media's idea of "The Perfect Woman"

The never ending battle against the Media and it`s bogus idea of the "PERFECT WOMAN". *sigh* Lately I have been studying the media, reading articles, watching news, and looking for anything that I can find to make me feel that there is still hope f... Read >

Being Dumped, just plain sucks!

Today I received a question from a guy. Here is what he said: "Posted by Anonymous The last woman I was involved with was quite full of herself. So then why did she dump me?" And my answer to him was this... "Posted by Dorothy Hey there, sorr... Read >

BROKEN TRUST!

BROKEN TRUST......ever been there?BROKEN TRUST......ever spent sleepless nights because of it?BROKEN TRUST......ever felt your stomach eat itself through the lining?BROKEN TRUST......ever been so confused with what is real and what is not ?BROKEN TRUST...... Read >

Child Victim to Survivor!

The innocence of a child, will not allow their mind to comprehend what terror is being put upon them during abuse. They can no more think killing their abuser than they can a fly. It worsens when the child knows the abuser, because they have a love and tr... Read >

CONTROL...who exactly is being controlled?

Hey all. How is life? How is your mind doing tonight? Are you bored? Are you looking for something to read? Are you looking for something to think about? I was boggled as to what exactly I wanted to share with my article lovers tonight. I had a plan, ... Read >

Feel Good Tips!!

Today is a feel good day. I tend to overload on the more serious side of ones mind, so today I will share some nice, positive, good feeling thoughts. First I want to say how much I enjoy the videos, and for those of you that do have the benefit ... Read >

FEELINGS!!!!

HEY people...today was a sunny, sunny, work my butt off day and with days like that, it does give me time to think a lot, so I thought why not give a Q&A. So many of us low self-esteemers are forced to deal with certain questions all the time. What s... Read >

Fight for your Self-Worth!

Self-Worth; this is a word that is so much easier to say, and spell then it is to feel! Why do so many women feel that they have no self-worth? How did they lose it? Is it because of the way the world has portrayed the perfect woman today? Is ... Read >

Habits!

There are good and bad habits, some of us have more of one than the other. I would say that I myself have a few bad habits, NOT smoking, NOT eating too much, NOT drinking too much, NOT chewing my nails, NOT picking my nose NOT any of the typical ones that... Read >